Its 10/10 today, we wish life too was 10 on 10. How when we break our leg we are taken to the doctor but we don’t have anyone when we are hurting,aching. We do have help available but none of us wants to reach out because the fear of being judged & talked about is bigger than the faith that we can be healed. We all are grieving. Some loudly,in their aggression, some silently when they switch of their lights & just lie down & hug the pillow & cry. Some can speak about their brokenness & some of us keep our brokenness to ourselves. Few of us wait to be hugged & just asked,how are you? And few of us,because we know how it feels not to be cared for,go about asking everyone if they are okay? There comes a time when no matter how many motivational,inspiration quotes you may read,it doesn’t help & sometimes when your mom wraps you in her arm & give you a forehead kiss,every wound heals. Broken heart & scars we cant talk about,messed up career choices & a struggle everyday to survive & silently grieve this is what life is but life is at the same time a lot more than a not so fated relationship, the scars that become the badge that you have earned,the career that makes you your own cheerleader & a struggle to not just survive but thrive.
I don’t want us to be known as ‘fighters’ because fighting brings destruction, so every time you fight, fight your past, fight against the flow of your life, fight with people, fight with destiny, fight with what you ‘think’ you want, it will only bring destruction. Life becomes a lot easier when you accept, accept that you are where you meant to be, you will get what you ‘need’, the true connections will never fall out & the past happened because it just wanted you to become better.
When was the last time you reached out to someone & asked, “are you okay”? when was the last time you simply leave a text to someone, “hey, i am here.” Every breath you take, there is a purpose to it. Are you just going to sit there, complain, get involved in ego battles, cling to what you think you want is the best for you & pull people down?
Or, you can choose to be grateful, lift people up & love more.
